Learn about NotMeCA

Why does NotMeCA Exist?

Too many women in California feel vulnerable and alone when it comes to protecting themselves. Whether they’ve experienced abuse, face ongoing threats, or simply want to take control of their own safety, the path to responsible gun ownership can feel overwhelming, intimidating, and full of obstacles.

That’s where NotMeCA comes in.

We provide one-on-one mentorship to help women navigate every step—purchasing a firearm, finding trustworthy training, and obtaining a permit to carry. We remove barriers, build confidence, and restore peace of mind. This isn’t about politics—it’s about safety, self-reliance, and freedom.

Your support makes it possible.

Every dollar you give helps us train mentors, fund scholarships for training and permits, and expand our reach to the thousands of women across California who are still waiting for someone to say, “You’re not alone.” When you donate to NotMeCA, you’re not just supporting a program—you’re empowering a movement of strong, capable women who refuse to be victims.

What does NotMeCA Do?

Meet the Program Director

Desiree Bergman

NotMeSD Program Director

Favorite Firearm:

My M&P Shield 9mm, cerakoted a custom blue!

Why Firearms?

Having knowledge and confidence using firearms safely empowers people with the tools to protect themselves and to not be a victim.

Background:

Desi’s goal with NotMe is to help as many women as possible arm themselves with the tools to be their own protectors.

She takes pride in the fact that she can make a significant impact on so many women of all walks of life through the NotMe program.

Desi is an NRA certified Pistol Instructor and RSO. When not at the range, Desi can be found practicing Krav Maga, scuba diving, rock climbing, traveling, or at the beach.